Your Definition is not Mine.

Hey there

So last week I had a date. 🙌🏻

A virtual coffee date y'all. (They're a thing now.)

And I had that completely I'm-so-nervous-I'm-sweating-and-freezing-at-the-same-time-energy.

So sexy.

Not. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Why am I telling you this?  

(besides the fact that I'm trying to meet a life partner.)

I'm sharing this bit of info with you because I'm doing all I can to make my 2020 a successful year for me.

In the olden days, (like 3 years ago) my success meter revolved all around money.  How much did I make? How much did I save? Did I pay down debt or rack it up? 

Now a bit wiser... I've had to re-learn what true success is for me. 

Hitting those financial goals are still super important. But so is having a date once a month, going to lunch with a girlfriend and laughing with ALL my kids.  I'm also being super intentional about my health in all areas (physically, mentally and spiritually) as well as listening and feeling to what truly brings me joy.  

But here's the kicker... I track it.

Yup, I check the box each month in each category so at the end of  2020, I know it was a successful year.  

Easy?  

In theory, absolutely!

But action doesn't always come easy.  

Welcome back to another episode of In The Nitty Gritty!  (CLICK HERE TO LISTEN where we dive into the 1 trait all successful people have in common.

I'd love to hear what resonated with you! Click here to go directly to my DM's. 

Oh, and the date?  

We'll be meeting again. 😉

#withgritandadmiration

Melissa Rose

PS. Want to make your year truly successful without all the nervous/freezing energy? Create the time, freedom and joy you deserve with clarity, confidence & consistency.  CLICK HERE to learn more.